“Since it exists only for your pleasure, why not use it?”
I love this short animated documentary about the clitoris from France.
After taking two Bodysex workshops with Betty and Carlin in New York, I really wanted to share the experience with a group of friends in Ohio. I figured this would give me valuable practice as I pursue my certification as a Bodysex facilitator.
I hosted a movie night and invited seven friends that were curious about my new passion. We watched Betty’s Bodysex Workshop DVD and talked about it. When I asked my friends who would like to join in a circle at my home with me as the facilitator, most were enthusiastic about participating. We set the date for a few weeks later and I began to prepare everything that we needed.
On March 5, three of us gathered together. What a tremendous experience for all of us! We began with sharing how we felt about our bodies and our orgasms. Although we knew one another before the workshop, revealing ourselves more deeply brought us together and ready for genital show and tell. I began by showing my pussy to the group. Amazingly, I felt comfortable in my role, sharing and describing the parts of my vulva. I sat reassuringly beside as each of the others took their turns. I felt so honored to share this intimate ritual with these remarkable women. We shared our vulva names: Kitty, Wonder Pussy, and Lauriebelle. Each of our pussies had a pillowy outer labia, and we agreed that we were grateful to have such pretty pillow pussies. I named our group the Pretty Pussy Posse. It was such a joyously positive moment. Then we viewed the video of Betty drawing the internal clitoris and I shared the internal clitoris model, anatomy diagrams and vulva drawings.
After a break, we came back into the circle We shared our various techniques for masturbation. Then we lubed up our barbells and intentionally inserted them into our vaginas while rhythmically squeezing and releasing. When fully inserted, we added the vibe and continued to practice the rock and roll method. It didn’t take long for us to become incredibly turned on, so we adjourned to erotic recess. As we settled into pursuing our own pleasure, the sound of orgasms erupted again and again. At some point, we all sat up for a break. I shared that I was fantasizing that we were all on the stage of a strip club, but instead of dancing and taking off our clothes, we were masturbating for an enthusiastic audience. After our break, we all decided to go for one more orgasm. Wonder Pussy came first with the rest of us quickly following her lead. It was intensely satisfying to orgasm together.
After a short rest, we recovered with group massage. Each of us were so relaxed and happy. We came back to the circle to share our final thoughts. We talked about ways that we could share group masturbation with other women in our community. I am confident that our small but mighty group will grow into more Bodysex circles in Ohio.
I feel so grateful for this extraordinary afternoon. Although I still have a lot to learn about facilitating Bodysex workshops, the power of the group guided the perfect experience for all of us. I have a deep connection with my two Bodysex sisters.
Thank you Kitty and Wonder Pussy.
Behold the amazing clitoris! There is so much more than the shy little button under the hood. Officially called the glans, the visible clitoris has about 8,000 sensory nerve fibers. But there is so much more to the clitoral system. The glans is connected to the shaft of the internal clitoris, system of erectile tissue under the labia and hugging the vagina. The entire clitoral system has almost as much erectile tissue as a penis.
Watch Betty Dodson draw the internal clitoris as she describes the amazing internal clitoris and vulva.
You can read more about the internal clitoris here on the Museum of Sex website.
I enjoyed this condom commercial that shows humans acting out animal courtships. It made me think about how important courtship is to satisfying partner sex.
Flirting makes us feel both attractive and attracted to a potential sex partner. The dance of courtship helps keep the fire in long-term relationships.